With the year 2015 coming to an end, I think it is time to look back on the things I have experienced and also evaluate myself in terms of my performance.
To start, let’s look at what happened to the World in 2015. From the Greek debt crisis earlier this year; bursting of China stock market bubble mid June and to the continuing oversupply problem of oil. The year 2015 is probably a very pessimistic year with seemingly more and more bad news everyday. We had witnessed the tragedy of Charlie Hebdo and Paris shooting that left hundreds of people dead; ongoing civil unrest in Syria that forced thousands to migrate and several mass shootings happened in the US. Year 2015 is not only a pessimistic but also a very tragic year, it is definitely not a good year by most people’s definition.
On the contrary, this year has been fantastic for me. A lot of things happened in the last 12 months: Started my first brokerage account and begin investing on stocks; read more books this year than my last 5 year combined; start to expose myself to different types of investments and business knowledge available by attending seminars; although sometimes disappointing, I believe my physical strength has improved because I started to go to gym, not to mention the amount of knowledge I received by researching and learning from others etc. Personally, I believe this is my most productive year to date. However, the year 2015 has not been a smooth ride either, it was a bumpy road with ups and downs. I had a few encounters at my workplace that were unpleasant to say the least (which turned out to be valuable lessons on social skills); had a few minor injuries which reminded me not to rush when trying to get results etc. With that being said, I’m still quite certain that I had a lot more ups than downs this year. I believe that most of the time, our definition of “down” is a matter of perspective, with mistakes, comes learning opportunities. I recently started reading The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey (A book I highly recommend to anyone who is serious about changing their lives), one of the things highlighted is that we are not the product of situations, rather we are the product of our choices. We take the sole responsibility for our life, because we have the freedom to choose whether to let something affect us or benefit us. Always remember: There is always another side of the coin, looking at things from one side is an opinion, when view from multiple sides you see the truth.
Here I want to list down certain things that I have learned in 2015
On Investing
- Things that are cheap can go cheaper, retail investors are unlikely to get a bargain at the lowest price
- Do not invest in cyclical companies/industries until they show signs of improvement, trying to time industry rebound is not worth the effort
- Success in the stock market is a test of patience and consistency, not a test for activity
- Stocks is probably the only paper asset that award its participant the most for having long-term perspective and least attention in achieving so
- The market is full of geniuses who indulge in playing the market for short-term, the not-so-smart investor’s intelligence is to recognize who is on the other side of their bet and reduce foolish decisions
- Average investors react to market movements, successful investors allow the market to fall into their game plan and take actions
On Success
- Success is more than getting the right skills, skills can only take you from point A to point B, but the right habits and principles will serve you for a lifetime
- A goal is a dream with action plan
- It is crucial to know the difference between important and knowable. Our success is based on our effort in doing the important knowable; but often we spent time worrying about the important unknowable that is far from our control
- Success is a personal achievement, do not compare your level 1 with other people’s level 99, the importance is you are making progress in the right direction
On Relationship/Communication
- Do not put high expectations on other people. First, you will make others around you stressed out, Second, you will more likely to have disappointment than pleasant surprises
- An active listener gets more friends than an active talker
- Everyone is interested in their own things, you need to show them you cared about their interest
- Your capability to do your own job will not necessarily earn the respect of others
- Avoid using the word “If I were you, I will ……” because if you were the person, you will experience what he experienced, knew what he knew, felt what he felt and ultimately did what he did
- Always acknowledge other people’s difficulties before express your own. Successful negotiation comes from common understanding, not single sided demand
- Be aware of your emotions. Imagine yourself as a spectator in a conversation before making any comments which you will likely regret later
This makes the end of my 2015 review. It has been a great year, and now as I flip the page over to start anew, I’m confident that with the foundation I have built for myself in 2015 my 2016 will be even more awesome. Cheers to an amazing year ahead! 🙂